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December 3, 2017

Ancient Greek Pederasty: Education or Exploitation?

Before you read further, take a moment to set aside your preconceived beliefs about relationships and sexuality. As you read, aim to view historical practices through a purely objective lens. Imagine you are in another time, where the same definitions of words and beliefs simply do not yet exist. Now that you have checked your biases, we will examine the controversial (by today’s standards) practice of pederasty by ancient Greeks. Pederasty was a social custom in which an adult male would court a young Greek boy to become his model, guide, and initiator, and would become responsible for the evolution of his chosen young counterpart.1 Pederasty has become so associated with the modern concept of pedophilia that it is hard to discuss it without venturing into the taboo. It wasn’t until 1978, when K. J. Dover wrote the book Greek Sexuality, that anyone was willing to take a deeper and objective look at this practice.2

Although we cannot condone such a practice in modern times, pederasty was a normal and necessary part of Greek education for young men at a time when formal education did not really exist.3 To be objective, we must emulate Dover’s approach and step back from our current ideals and societal norms, to look at pederasty from the perspectives of the Greeks themselves, if we are truly to understand this cultural phenomenon and anthropological fact.4 From the Greek’s perspective, pederasty was not pedophilia, but an important part of growing up in classical Greece, and in the context of Greek culture it was not believed to be harmful or damaging to the boys involved.5 If anything, it was the normal path that nearly all young Greek men followed.

To fully understand the impact this practice had on Greek society, we must look at it from the point of view of the Greeks themselves, and this starts with analyzing their views on sexuality in general. Scholars make clear that ancient Greeks did not think of sexuality the same way that we do today. The closest word they had to describe sexuality was ta aphrodisia: “the matters of Aphrodite.” Aphrodite was the goddess of love in ancient Greek culture. Matters ascribed to Aphrodite encompassed sexual acts, urges, and pleasures.6 The key thing to understand about aphrodisia in ancient Greek culture was the fundamental distinction between the people in the relationship. There was always an active dominant partner and a passive submissive one. The Greeks never conceived of sex as a mutually satisfying experience shared by equal partners as we do today. They regarded sex as an activity one does by oneself, even though the other person is there to be acted upon.

This concept of dominant and submissive fits within the boundaries of pederasty, as the older man was the active partner while the youth was the submissive one. To the Greeks, the act of love was utterly one-sided: you could be longed for and loved, even desired, but there was no mutual love, meaning that both individuals could not love or desire each other.7 This helps us understand the reason the Greek relationship required one submissive and one dominant partner—love was only one sided. Robin Osborne, who wrote Greek History, states that in ancient Greek society “they worked to regulate their aphrodisiac and sensual pleasures, with their mind and body, but sexual activity was not treated as a matter of morality as it often is today.” The Greeks also differentiated sharply between eros, an erotic desire, and philia, the non-sexual affection family members or friends might feel for one another.8

This is not to say that all pederastic relationships were sexual though. The eromenos, the young beloved one, was expected to pay attention to the distinction between honor and shame throughout this relationship. The relationship was a preparation for manhood, and the eromenos was being evaluated by onlookers for his potential to assume domestic and civic responsibilities. It was considered a prime display of self-control for the older male to temper his passion and not engage in sexual intercourse with his progeny.

The dominant partner’s abstaining from sex was done out of respect for the boy’s civic status and personal autonomy. In Socrates’ banquet conversations, he voices a common assumption: “A youth does not share in the pleasures of sex with the man, as a woman does, but soberly looks upon the other drunk with passion.” The eromenos complied only with his lover’s requests out of esteem, gratitude, and the anticipation of a lifelong friendship.9 Thus, not all pederastic relationships were sexual.

Socrates | Notablebiographies.com

Just as the ancient Greeks had very different definitions and beliefs surrounding sexuality, homosexuality also had a very different meaning than it does today. There is nothing that truly translates to our modern understanding of homosexuality. In ancient times, homosexuality was not defined merely by the sharing of a relationship between two partners of the same sex, but in doing so it violated the dominant/submissive construct. Had a Greek man sought a relationship with another man his age, he would be reviled for violating beliefs about normal Greek sexuality, yet a relationship with a younger, submissive man was viewed as normal and necessary.10 Homosexuality between same sex people near in age was not openly practiced in Greek culture. In fact, it was considered perverted. Greeks believed that homosexuality existed in the act of violating the dominant/submissive construct, not in the gender of the partner as later cultures defined the concept. Ultimately, beliefs and practices surrounding Greek sexuality in ancient times were different from anything existing in modern society, including a very different understanding of homosexuality.

Now, armed with this basic knowledge about Greek sexuality, we can better assess the value of the practice of pederasty from the ancient Greek perspective. The term pederasty derives from the Greek term paiderastia, which translates to “love of boys.”11 The practice of pederasty was first institutionalized in Crete, then moved outward to the wider Greek world. Pederasty took a strong hold in Sparta, where it was well suited to their warrior-based society, then spread from there to Athens. Professor and historian William Armstrong argues that Athens rose to grandeur only after it institutionalized pederasty. It provided a consistent method to ensure the education and development of young men in ancient times.12

To the ancient Greeks, pederasty was a respectable custom. It involved neither violent rape nor the use of a submissive slave, but the ardent courting of a free boy.13 There is much debate among scholars about the age of the youths when the courting began. Professor James Davidson writes in his book The Greeks and Greek Love that the Greeks placed an emphasis on the courting process for young men not starting until they hit puberty, and that puberty itself arrived later in antiquity than it does in the modern Western world. On the other hand, Marilyn Skinner, professor of gender and sexuality, argues that it most likely started at or around the age of fourteen for young men.14 Regardless, once they reached puberty, the courting process began.

The courting process was like the one undertaken by men seeking a young bride at that time. The older male would court the youth by flattering him with gifts. This would continue until he eventually won the young man over and claimed him as his beloved. But the boy could accept, or wait for another.15 This process occurred with both young girls and boys after entering puberty. Pederasty was viewed as the masculine analogue to marriage, the rite of passage that Greek girls of the same age were subjected to as well.16 Ultimately, pederasty was a passing stage in which the adolescent was the beloved of an older male, and remained as such until he reached a certain developmental threshold. After reaching that threshold, the young man would in turn take on an adolescent beloved of his own. The pederastic relationship was a part of transitioning to full adulthood and citizenship.17

Erastes courting the eromenos | Ancientathens.org

Once a pederastic relationship was established, the older male had the responsibility of being the boy’s teacher and protector, and to serve as a model of courage, virtue, and wisdom.18 The older Greek male was referred to as the erastes, which translates to lover, while the youth was the eromenos, the beloved. Although these translations use words such as lover and beloved, they do not translate to love as we know it today, with mutual desire, shared affection, and equal satisfaction.19 Again, this practice was based on the dominant/submissive construct with the view that love was only one-sided.

There are those who categorize the act of pederasty in ancient Greece as simple pedophilia and an act of abuse towards the younger males involved. Comparative literature professor Enid Bloch is a loud critic of the practice and argues that pederasty involved the unjust exploitation of a trusting or helpless victim by someone in a position of power.20 Though we can certainly debate the harm to both young male and female Greeks from being courted at such young ages, the problem with Bloch’s argument is that she is comparing ancient Greek activities to our modern moral code to make her argument. Even if we agree that such a practice has no place in modern society, that does not mean that ancient practices should be judged using our current standards.

It is interesting how much attention the pederastic relationship between males gets from a moral perspective, as opposed to the attention we give to the practice of marrying off and impregnating young women. It is widely known that throughout history and extending into modern times, girls as young as twelve were married off to men much older than them. This is a practice that extends well beyond Greek society to just about every culture at different times. Yet we seem more able to accept that practice of taking young brides, without the moral outrage that exists with the pederastic relationship. Though we generally agree that the practice of taking young girls is wrong today, it is not viewed with the same level of disgust as the taking of young boys by older men. This dichotomy in and of itself suggests that we are viewing these relationships through our own culturally-informed lens. How can one practice be accepted as an unfavorable, but historically appropriate, practice, and the other not? This further demonstrates that although we tend to condemn historical practices such as pederasty, we have to look past our condemnation and seek to understand the cultural significance of these acts.

Instead we must look at the practice of pederasty through a historical lens and take into consideration the cultural factors within Greece at the time these events were taking place.21 What did pederasty mean to the Greeks themselves? To determine this, we need to establish the limits imposed by the modern definitions of the two key terms ascribed to such relationships. First, pedophilia as defined by Oxford dictionary means “sexual feelings directed towards children.”22 By arguing from the assumption that the same definition can be applied to ancient times as many critical scholars do, the immediate issue posed is that childhood was not defined the same as it is today. To the extent there was any comparison to be made between ancient and modern children, one thing is certain—”becoming an adult” occurred much sooner than age eighteen. Childhood for ancient children typically ended when puberty began. This would suggest that at the age when courting began, the young Greeks were considered adults by ancient standards. Therefore, the term pedophilia simply does not fit this situation.

Next, though the English word “pederasty” in present-day usage usually implies the abuse of minors, Greek law recognized the necessity of consent to enter a relationship, but not the reaching of a certain age as a factor in regulating sexual behavior.23 Robin Osborn, a classical historian, has pointed out that paiderastia gets complicated when we apply our twenty-first-century moral standards to it. She states that: “It is the historian’s job to draw attention to the personal, social, political, and indeed moral issues behind the literary and artistic representations of the Greek world. The historian’s job is to present pederasty and all, to make sure that we come face to face with the way the glory that was Greece was part of a world in which many of our core values are challenged rather than reinforced.”24 As stated before, in Greek society once a boy reached puberty, he was considered a self-sufficient citizen who was able to make rational decisions about sex, dignity, and honor.

Athens | Historymadeeveryday.wordpress.com

Stripped of the limitations of these modern definitions, it is not hard to see why some scholars believe that the practice of pederasty was not as predatory as it seems by modern day standards. Anthropologist and author Geoffrey Gorer judged this relationship model as socially viable for the time, and stated “it likely did not give rise to psychological discomfort or neuroses for most if not all the young males involved because it was a common practice of the time.”25 Gorer’s views are in sharp contrast to Enid Bloch, who argues that Greek pederasty was psychologically and physically damaging to the boys involved. Enid Bloch even goes so far as to accuse fellow historian Mark Golden—who wrote the book, Children and Childhood in Classical Athens—of aiding in the exploitation of children today when he defends pederasty that took place in ancient Greece. She argues that Mark Golden would most likely condemn that practice within our society today, but accepts pederasty as the Greek way of acculturating boys to their future citizenship roles.26

There are undoubtedly strong emotions guiding many historians in their study of ancient practices. Some of them are certainly primitive from our vantage point. Yet, arguing that an ancient practice held an acceptable place in its historical context is not the same as endorsing that practice in the modern-day world. Enid Bloch’s attack of Mark Golden distracts from the merits of the practice of pederasty by suggesting anyone who believes it served an ancient purpose is a modern monster. Mark Golden simply argued that this was the Greek way of acculturating boys to their future citizenship roles. And, in fact, this is what pederasty was for ancient Greeks. It helped provide Greek youths the tools they needed to become successful Greek citizens. Golden was clear that if this were taking place in our society today, he would condemn it. Rather, we should recognize that Mark Golden’s example shows us perfectly how to remove ourselves from the modern context and immerse ourselves in a historical perspective.27

Furthermore, philosopher Miranda Fricker elaborates on taboo subjects in history by theorizing: “The proper standards by which to judge people are the best standards that were available at the time.”28 Simply put, we cannot and should not blame people for failing to be moral pioneers. The act of pederasty was an integral part of society in ancient Greece and at that time they saw the practice as a pivotal moment in the maturing of young men. Greek men courted their younger Greek counterparts just as they were entering adulthood by ancient standards. Once a match was made, the older man became the teacher, protector, and model of courage, virtue, and wisdom for the young man on his path through early adulthood. We cannot fit the pederastic relationship within our modern beliefs about sexuality, pedophilia, or even our current definition of pederasty. Moreover, we should challenge our discomfort with this practice with our discomfort with the same practice for young girls at that time. The very fact that the pederastic relationship is so much more controversial today reveals something about our own sensibilities. One thing is certain; we can safely assume that current and future generations of people will look back at views and practices we still consider to be morally appropriate with disdain for our lack of moral courage. The marching forward of time and the progression of our species all but guarantees that our moral standards will—and frankly should be—ever evolving. Let us not judge our predecessors so harshly, but understand and learn from them.

  1. Anton Adamut, “Philosophical Aspects of Homosexuality in Ancient Greek,” Annals of Philosophy, Social and Human Disciplines Vol 2 (2011): 14.
  2. Enid Bloch, “Sex between Men and Boys in Classical Greece: Was It Education for Citizenship or Child Abuse?,” Journal of Men’s Studies 9, no. 2 (2001): 184.
  3. Anton Adamut, “Philosophical Aspects of Homosexuality in Ancient Greek,” Annals of Philosophy, Social and Human Disciplines Vol 2 (2011): 14.
  4. Marilyn B. Skinner, Sexuality in Greek and Roman Culture 2nd edition (United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons, 2014), 14.
  5. James Davidson, The Greeks And Greek Love (New York: Random House, 2007), 72.
  6. Marilyn B. Skinner, Sexuality in Greek and Roman Culture 2nd edition (United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons, 2014), 12.
  7. James Davidson, The Greeks And Greek Love (New York: Random House, 2007), 19.
  8. Robin Osborne, Greek History (London: Routledge, 2004), 24.
  9. Marilyn B. Skinner, Sexuality in Greek and Roman Culture 2nd edition (United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons, 2014), 16-18.
  10. Chloe Taylor, The Routledge Guidebook to Foucault’s The History of Sexuality (New York: Routledge, 2017), 217.
  11. James Davidson, The Greeks And Greek Love (New York: Random House, 2007), 32.
  12. William Armstrong Percy III, Pederasty and Pedagogy in Archaic Greece (Illinois: University of Illinois Press, 1996), 47.
  13. Enid Bloch, “Sex between Men and Boys in Classical Greece: Was It Education for Citizenship or Child Abuse?,” Journal of Men’s Studies 9, no. 2 ( 2001): 186.
  14. Marilyn B. Skinner, Sexuality in Greek and Roman Culture 2nd edition (United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons, 2014), 21.
  15. Enid Bloch, “Sex between Men and Boys in Classical Greece: Was It Education for Citizenship or Child Abuse?,” Journal of Men’s Studies 9, no. 2 ( 2001): 186.
  16. Robin Osborne, Greek History (London: Routledge, 2004), 14.
  17. Marilyn B. Skinner, Sexuality in Greek and Roman Culture 2nd edition (United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons, 2014), 15.
  18. James Davidson, The Greeks And Greek Love (New York: Random House, 2007), 40.
  19. Enid Bloch, “Sex between Men and Boys in Classical Greece: Was It Education for Citizenship or Child Abuse?,” Journal of Men’s Studies 9, no. 2 ( 2001): 186.
  20. Enid Bloch, “Sex between Men and Boys in Classical Greece: Was It Education for Citizenship or Child Abuse?,” Journal of Men’s Studies 9, no. 2 ( 2001): 193.
  21. Marilyn B. Skinner, Sexuality in Greek and Roman Culture 2nd edition (United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons, 2014), 15.
  22. English Oxford Dictionary, 2017, s.v. “Pedophilia.”
  23. James Davidson, The Greeks And Greek Love (New York: Random House, 2007), 89.
  24. Robin Osborne, Greek History (London: Routledge, 2004), 72.
  25. Marilyn B. Skinner, Sexuality in Greek and Roman Culture 2nd edition (United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons, 2014), 15.
  26. Enid Bloch, “Sex between Men and Boys in Classical Greece: Was It Education for Citizenship or Child Abuse?,” Journal of Men’s Studies 9, no. 2 ( 2001): 188-190.
  27. Enid Bloch, “Sex between Men and Boys in Classical Greece: Was It Education for Citizenship or Child Abuse?,” Journal of Men’s Studies 9, no. 2 ( 2001): 183-187.
  28. Miranda Fricker, “Should we judge people of past eras for moral failings?” Matthew Sweet, The Philosopher’s Arm, August 2013.

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Vania Gonzalez

Greeks have always been so interesting in every aspect and this is one of those topics that now would be seen as sinful but back then was a norm. Again this is not exactly a physical contact type of relationship so I think it is is not what we think when we hear pedastry because it has evolved into a bad thing in society that should be ashamed of but if you think about it that was not at all what it meant back in those ancient times. This was interesting read thank you for the background information at the beginning.

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23/09/2019

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Todd Brauckmiller Jr.

The article has such great structure to it. We are first given a problem and with scholar after scholar we are told many different perspectives on the topic of Pederasty. At first I had a hard time understanding about what the relationship was actually about because of how it is viewed negatively in today’s society. Though during those times things were different and they did what they thought was appropriate at the time. The past may not be the best picture to be thinking about but it can still be used as a powerful tool. We take from what we have learn and build off from that to either improve it or change it entirely, that’s what makes history so great.

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08/10/2019

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Kasandra Ramirez Ferrer

I honestly don’t agree with the article because it states that the practice of this tradition could be considered as a normal thing and that it was just a part of growing up for the Greeks. I think this tradition affected kids in a way where they would be traumatized by all those years they spend being a man’s romantic partner just so they could get their knowledge. I’m still really shocked by the fact parents encouraged this tradition.

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31/10/2019

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Amelia Hew

Despite the fact that the Pederasty was a social custom in ancient Greek that involved an adult male courting a young male seems like a concept of pedophilia, I don’t think we can compare the young males of ancient Greek to modern time young males. I think that ancient Greek were more mature mentally and has different beliefs compare to modern young males. To them, participating in that social custom is just a part of life. The Pederasty was to help groom the young males into a proper Greek citizen with the aid of the more older and experienced males.

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02/11/2019

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Jimmie

The reason we see things differently is because of the Catholic church in general it was Judeo-Christianity that changed western society and in America it was the Puritans and now the Evangelicals so today “they”, still wield great power through influence! So no matter what an atheist believes on being “Free thinkers” is false! The Left in that sense will always be controlled by the Right!

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14/11/2020

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Ann

True morals do not change over time. If it was okay then, it should be okay today and no one would condone pederasty today. It seems to me to be the epitome of hedonism with men getting and having anything they wanted, and young boys would probably gain access to learning, the way an actress would sleep with a producer to get the role.

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24/01/2021

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Frank

I have a problem with how normalized historians think pederasty in Ancient Greece was while completely ignoring any evidence to the contrary. Plays by Aristophanes often paint pederasty as being despised by the commoners. Much of Ken Dover’s exploration in his book Greek Homosexuality was based on vases……..vases. I’ll argue it’s difficult to find out what everyday life was like in ancient times, but if we were to use vases as an example, there were 10 times as many vases depicting sex between adults, particularly heterosexual couples.

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18/10/2021

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Ralph

I think there is so much discussion online about this subject, some are extremely negative, others are more positive or tolerant or at least less judgemental, and still others are deeply conflicted and mixed about this sensitive topic, as if uncertain what to think about it in particular, or are even to afraid to outright discuss it. Plato once said that the relationship between a younger and an older male was the “highest form” of love. I offer this view – the purely PLATONIC or non-physical form of relationship between a younger and older individual can indeed be beneficial to both, based in an ancient and traditional student-and-teacher relationship. I honestly think when ancient Greece developed its culture and society, something went “wrong” in the process so to speak, and the platonic relationship between younger and older men (serving as a kind of mentorship role to guide them into adulthood and society) was somehow slowly made into a physical and carnal relationship, which can indeed be easily exploitative and manipulative, and became extremely controversial even to other cultures at the time of the Greeks. True and lasting “love”, both ancient and modern, goes well beyond the flesh and the physical aspect, and in my opinion, is not dependent upon either.

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29/03/2022

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Noel Nichols

As a victim of pedophilia and the nurturing grooming, I find it a sad moment in academic open mindness to suggest we set aside our “modern values” to read Plato. Let’s not forget there were other values that may not have been dominant, should not the less stand equal to “Socrates.” Besides we don’t read Plato the comprehend the benevolent possibilities to be found by slaves being nurtured and taught by dominant privileged Greek Citizens. Oppression and exploitation wherever it occurs should be understood as part of a bad past best seen as wrong not normalized and excused by those who speak from an ivory tower.

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19/07/2022

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Anastasia Likousi

Marxist theory reveals that all societies (including 21st century Western capitalism) are class societies where the lower class works to maintain the culture and privilege of the upper class. Therefore Ancient Greek pederasty was a cultural activity that maintained the privilege of the Ancient Greek upper class. The boys would have no other choice but to accept pederasty if they wanted to achieve a better position in Ancient Greek society, similar to how present-day employees have to accept cultural norms like corporate office hierarchy and respect towards managers and company owners.

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