It is the 1960s. Imagine being the son or daughter to a filmmaker and an actress. As you grow up, you become exposed to drugs and alcohol that lead you into a downward spiral. Robert Downey Jr was born in Greenwich Village, New York. Greenwich Village is a neighborhood area on Manhattan Island where many aspiring artists and writers have lived.1 His parents constantly had friends over to their house for occasional gatherings, and most of those who came were actors and actresses who were considered hippies by many. There was mass distaste for hippies at the time, due mainly to their drug use, which they claimed was for creativity; thus, this negative view on the hippies eventually affected Downey and his family, given that drugs were easy to access with the coming and going of party guests. When he was only eight years old, Junior was offered some Marijuana by his father, and he did not realize the mistake he was making until it was too late.
By the time Robert was eight years old, he had witnessed drugs and alcohol as part of his normal childhood. He later understood it as a necessity within his family, only because his parents were constant users.2 Later, during his time as a young actor, he started to struggle with drug abuse and alcohol issues. In the film Less Than Zero, he played a crackhead character named Julian, and during the filming of the movie, he completed a treatment in rehab.3 When he played Charlie Chaplin in the film Chaplin, he received a lot of praise for it, however, he was still struggling with his emotions by using unhealthy coping mechanisms, particularly drugs. He met his first love, Deborah Falconer, in 1992. Deborah was also a drug addict, but she was not as heavily addicted to drugs as he was. They began to develop a connection, but during their first date, Robert’s family came in to stage an intervention. He was confronted about his drug abuse and they demanded that he seek treatment.4
In the mid 90’s, he changed his life by switching his addiction to heroin, leaving marijuana and cocaine in the past. This heroin was black-tar heroin, produced in Mexico. It was very addictive for drug users. In 1995, he played a gay son in the film Home for the Holidays, and he later admitted that he was high throughout the entire filming process. Director Jodie Foster wrote a letter to him to urge him to seek help, but Downey ignored the advice, since he convinced himself the drug abuse situation was under control. His heroin addiction affected his work life when he showed up late to the set or fell asleep; it also altered his appearance.5 Later, he got into trouble in 1996, when he was arrested. On June 23, 1996, he was pulled over for speeding and was under the influence. The police searched his car and found cocaine, heroin, and a handgun. He posted a bail bond of ten thousand dollars, and was released at night. On July 16, 1996, he was under the influence of drugs, again, but alcohol was involved. He had tried to go home that night, but he ended up at his neighbor’s home instead. He was then charged with being under the influence of a controlled substance and with trespassing. At the end of July in 1996, Robert Downey Jr appeared underweight and tired as he stood before Judge Lawrence Mira in his prison jumpsuit with his family and wife in the court room. It was at that moment that he became determined to beat his drug addiction after realizing that his drug issue was indeed horrible. His fans hoped that Robert’s sentence of several months in a supervised rehab facility the entire time with frequent drug tests and three years of probation would help save his career. He was unable to control himself with his addiction. When he was in the courtroom in 1999, he told the judge, “It’s like I have a loaded gun in my mouth and my finger’s on the trigger. And I like the taste of gunmetal.”6
The experience he had with heroin couldn’t compare to other addicts who were abusing different drugs like he did. While he recovered, he would experience cravings an addict would experience which felt overwhelming.7 He then took two years off from acting to focus on rehab. During his time in rehab, he spent some time thinking about his life. He thought about his personal background and past experiences. Then, he found a clear perspective on his life. He realized that he grew up feeling rebellious and that he had no idea what to do with himself, but knew he wasn’t happy with what life threw at him. At the end of rehab, he found positive outlets for his energy and rebellious nature.8
He tried to get more roles in different films, but that meant the producers had to pay more for insurance because of the risk he posed. This was specially difficult for him because he could not work without insurance, and what made it worse is that he could not get any without proving his reliability as an actor.9 In an interview in 2003, he said, “I’m less of an insurance risk than anybody I am going to work with for the next while because I am aware of my limitations.” After he said this, he lost a role in a Woody Allen film.10 Then things changed when he met with his friend, Mel Gibson. Gibson previously worked with Downey on a film known as Air America when Downey had alcoholism issues. They also worked together in a film when Mel Gibson played a psychiatrist and he helped Robert come back to the silver screen.11 Mel Gibson helped Robert come back to the film life. Gibson offered a starring role to Downey in a film he was producing known as The Singing Detective, and agreed to pay for Downey’s insurance policy out of pocket. After a long battle with drugs and alcohol, things were starting to go great. He received help in rehab and support from his wife and his friend Mel Gibson.12
In the award ceremony, Downey Jr paid tribute to their friendship and said, “when I couldn’t get sober, Mel helped me. He gave me food and roof when I needed the most and in return, he just asked me to do the same for another person.”13
Time passed and Robert Downey Jr did not suffer from a relapse, since he was building up his reputation from scratch. Between 2005-2007, he broke out ten different film performances, including a role in 2007 where he played a constant drinking journalist on the hunt of the killer in the Zodiac film. The best outcome from his new life was that he was able to spend more time with his son and appreciated the fact that he achieved a normal family life. “I feel like because I’ve finally gotten out of my own way, I can enjoy my reputation. Because for all intents and purposes, what I should be right now is this never-do-well, embittered, unemployable guy arguing with some hooker outside a Malibu hotel scrambling for a syringe, but I’ve got it really good.”14
He became Iron Man, a teacher, a doctor, and many more roles from numerous films. He smiles at the success he has earned from acting, such as winning Academy awards within the past couple of years. Despite the impact drugs had on him, he overcame them. Currently, he’s full of life after just starring in Dolittle, doing a YouTube documentary, and still thriving with his wife and kids.15
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 11. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 16. ↵
- A. Petruso and Laura Avery, Newsmakers 2007 Cumulation (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2008), 151. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 35. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 39. ↵
- Todd Howard, Recovering from Heroin Addiction (San Diego, CA: Lucent Books, 2011), 81. ↵
- Todd Howard, Recovering from Heroin Addiction (San Diego, CA: Lucent Books 2011), 81. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 57. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr, (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 60. ↵
- A. Petruso and Laura Avery, Newsmakers 2007 Cumulation (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2008),15. ↵
- St. James Encyclopedia of Popular Culture, 2013, s. v. “Downey, Robert Jr (1965-)” by Janet Mullane and Thomas Riggs, 157. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 60. ↵
- Ankita Mehta, “Robert Downey Jr. Asks Hollywood ‘Forgive My Friend’ Mel Gibson,” International Business Times, Winter 2011. https://www.ibtimes.com/robert-downey-jr-asks-hollywood-forgive-my-friend-mel-gibson-323691. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 65. ↵
- Isobel Asher Hamilton, “YouTube’s new documentary demystifying artificial intelligence features Robert Downey Jr. and an AI baby,” Business Insider, December 20, 2019. https://www.businessinsider.com/youtube-ai-documentary-series-hosted-by-robert-downey-jr-2019-12. ↵
78 comments
Destiny Lucero
Robert Downey Jr. is such a resilient human being. From the beginning, with his parents being so irresponsible and giving him drugs, and letting him grow up to think that is whats normal is a huge set back on anyone’s life. Then, being in the entertainment industry, where stress, and reputation is at a higher standard than the average person’s, it was completely normal for him to develop such an unhealthy coping mechanism. However, he beat it. He knew he wanted to be better, so he made a comeback. After he had trust back he got to play the role Tony Stark, and that role is huge! He could be dead if he never cleaned up his act! Robert Downey Jr. is remarkable, and I am proud for him.
Giselle Garcia
Robert Downey Jr. had such strength to change his life from being addicted to drugs to successfully overcoming his addiction and being a respected actor with a loving family. I’m glad that he had a supportive friend, Mel Gibson, that pulled him aside and helped him through landing him acting roles. He is such an inspiration for all those trying to overcome drug addiction.
Hali Garcia
This is a very informative article on Robert Downey Jr. and his struggle with drug addiction. Robert Downey Jr. is one of my favorite actors and I really enjoy watching his movies. I am glad that he had people who were trying to help him even though he would not listen and they kept urging him to get help. What struck me was how he had used his background as a way to encourage himself to overcome his addiction. I was also struck by how he had described his feeling to the judge. Great article.
Thiffany Yeupell
I commend on Robert Downey Jr. in successfully beating his addictions but cannot stomach the mistreatment from his childhood that led him onto this path. Being exposed to such drugs at such a young age, one must be careful to not place the blame on Downey, as the parents are to be at fault completely. The responsibility of raising and caring for a child in a safe manner should be the goal of all parents, yet that is not the case in reality. Downey is a success story, but due to the resources and funding that was available to him. Others are not so lucky.
Matthew Avila
it is amazing to see the decline and rise of Robbert Downy Jr. it was very unfortunate that he was surrounded by drugs during his childhood causing him to pick it up when he was older. but I am glad that this story ended happily because not many people push through rehab, and if you’re an actor it’s always hard to re-launch your acting career.
Kendall Guajardo
He is my favorite marvel character and to know his early life was so exhausting and normalized is really disheartening. I find it really strange that his family, even with their attitude towards drugs, would allow their kid to participate with them. Many people look down on others who face any addiction and that really is not fair because not everybody does drugs for the same reasons, hence he is a great example for that. Mel Gibson lifted him out of that bad streak where he was disappointed, fired from jobs, and isolated. I am eternally grateful for these people who exist in the world that want to help people because they see the good in them. Hollywood can build you up and tear you down fairly quickly. It is amazing that he had such a transformation for his family and his career.
Margaret Cavazos
This article brought to light the struggles that Robert Downey Jr. has faced on his path to fame. He has clearly faced more challenges than many other actors may have but his determination to get clean is admirable. I had heard of Downey Jr.’s struggles but since much of his problems were before I was born, I didn’t understand the extent of his troubles. It is inspiring that he is now a pop culture icon and his character, Iron Man, is viewed as a hero and many know him for this role and look up to him. Robert Downey Jr.’s path to redemption is inspiring and the fact that he had the right people to help him through his addiction troubles shows the importance of having supportive people in one’s life.
Amanda Shoemaker
I’m a huge fan of Robert Downey Jr. Drug use being normalized in his life at such a young age was bound to have a huge impact on his life. I’ve heard bits and pieces about his life while he was addicted to drugs but I never knew he was a heroin addict. Heroin addiction is usually regarded as the worst of the worst. It’s very inspiring that he escaped from that wormhole and is now such a positive role model for anyone hoping to overcome addiction. I really enjoyed reading this article.
Juliana Montoya
Robert Downey Jr. has always been on of my favorite actors because he is very good in any role that he is placed. However, I was never aware of how serious his drug and alcohol addiction really was. I had known very little detail about his past but this article did a good job of exposing his past problems.
David Castaneda Picon
Wow! This is a great descriptive article about Robert Downey Jr. I have been a fan of his since the first Iron Man movie, and I knew a little about his past life but not in much detail. I believe it is very impressive how he managed to overcome his addiction problems and turn into one of the greatest actors we have nowadays, and he is not only a great actor but also a great person.