It is the 1960s. Imagine being the son or daughter to a filmmaker and an actress. As you grow up, you become exposed to drugs and alcohol that lead you into a downward spiral. Robert Downey Jr was born in Greenwich Village, New York. Greenwich Village is a neighborhood area on Manhattan Island where many aspiring artists and writers have lived.1 His parents constantly had friends over to their house for occasional gatherings, and most of those who came were actors and actresses who were considered hippies by many. There was mass distaste for hippies at the time, due mainly to their drug use, which they claimed was for creativity; thus, this negative view on the hippies eventually affected Downey and his family, given that drugs were easy to access with the coming and going of party guests. When he was only eight years old, Junior was offered some Marijuana by his father, and he did not realize the mistake he was making until it was too late.
By the time Robert was eight years old, he had witnessed drugs and alcohol as part of his normal childhood. He later understood it as a necessity within his family, only because his parents were constant users.2 Later, during his time as a young actor, he started to struggle with drug abuse and alcohol issues. In the film Less Than Zero, he played a crackhead character named Julian, and during the filming of the movie, he completed a treatment in rehab.3 When he played Charlie Chaplin in the film Chaplin, he received a lot of praise for it, however, he was still struggling with his emotions by using unhealthy coping mechanisms, particularly drugs. He met his first love, Deborah Falconer, in 1992. Deborah was also a drug addict, but she was not as heavily addicted to drugs as he was. They began to develop a connection, but during their first date, Robert’s family came in to stage an intervention. He was confronted about his drug abuse and they demanded that he seek treatment.4
In the mid 90’s, he changed his life by switching his addiction to heroin, leaving marijuana and cocaine in the past. This heroin was black-tar heroin, produced in Mexico. It was very addictive for drug users. In 1995, he played a gay son in the film Home for the Holidays, and he later admitted that he was high throughout the entire filming process. Director Jodie Foster wrote a letter to him to urge him to seek help, but Downey ignored the advice, since he convinced himself the drug abuse situation was under control. His heroin addiction affected his work life when he showed up late to the set or fell asleep; it also altered his appearance.5 Later, he got into trouble in 1996, when he was arrested. On June 23, 1996, he was pulled over for speeding and was under the influence. The police searched his car and found cocaine, heroin, and a handgun. He posted a bail bond of ten thousand dollars, and was released at night. On July 16, 1996, he was under the influence of drugs, again, but alcohol was involved. He had tried to go home that night, but he ended up at his neighbor’s home instead. He was then charged with being under the influence of a controlled substance and with trespassing. At the end of July in 1996, Robert Downey Jr appeared underweight and tired as he stood before Judge Lawrence Mira in his prison jumpsuit with his family and wife in the court room. It was at that moment that he became determined to beat his drug addiction after realizing that his drug issue was indeed horrible. His fans hoped that Robert’s sentence of several months in a supervised rehab facility the entire time with frequent drug tests and three years of probation would help save his career. He was unable to control himself with his addiction. When he was in the courtroom in 1999, he told the judge, “It’s like I have a loaded gun in my mouth and my finger’s on the trigger. And I like the taste of gunmetal.”6
The experience he had with heroin couldn’t compare to other addicts who were abusing different drugs like he did. While he recovered, he would experience cravings an addict would experience which felt overwhelming.7 He then took two years off from acting to focus on rehab. During his time in rehab, he spent some time thinking about his life. He thought about his personal background and past experiences. Then, he found a clear perspective on his life. He realized that he grew up feeling rebellious and that he had no idea what to do with himself, but knew he wasn’t happy with what life threw at him. At the end of rehab, he found positive outlets for his energy and rebellious nature.8
He tried to get more roles in different films, but that meant the producers had to pay more for insurance because of the risk he posed. This was specially difficult for him because he could not work without insurance, and what made it worse is that he could not get any without proving his reliability as an actor.9 In an interview in 2003, he said, “I’m less of an insurance risk than anybody I am going to work with for the next while because I am aware of my limitations.” After he said this, he lost a role in a Woody Allen film.10 Then things changed when he met with his friend, Mel Gibson. Gibson previously worked with Downey on a film known as Air America when Downey had alcoholism issues. They also worked together in a film when Mel Gibson played a psychiatrist and he helped Robert come back to the silver screen.11 Mel Gibson helped Robert come back to the film life. Gibson offered a starring role to Downey in a film he was producing known as The Singing Detective, and agreed to pay for Downey’s insurance policy out of pocket. After a long battle with drugs and alcohol, things were starting to go great. He received help in rehab and support from his wife and his friend Mel Gibson.12
In the award ceremony, Downey Jr paid tribute to their friendship and said, “when I couldn’t get sober, Mel helped me. He gave me food and roof when I needed the most and in return, he just asked me to do the same for another person.”13
Time passed and Robert Downey Jr did not suffer from a relapse, since he was building up his reputation from scratch. Between 2005-2007, he broke out ten different film performances, including a role in 2007 where he played a constant drinking journalist on the hunt of the killer in the Zodiac film. The best outcome from his new life was that he was able to spend more time with his son and appreciated the fact that he achieved a normal family life. “I feel like because I’ve finally gotten out of my own way, I can enjoy my reputation. Because for all intents and purposes, what I should be right now is this never-do-well, embittered, unemployable guy arguing with some hooker outside a Malibu hotel scrambling for a syringe, but I’ve got it really good.”14
He became Iron Man, a teacher, a doctor, and many more roles from numerous films. He smiles at the success he has earned from acting, such as winning Academy awards within the past couple of years. Despite the impact drugs had on him, he overcame them. Currently, he’s full of life after just starring in Dolittle, doing a YouTube documentary, and still thriving with his wife and kids.15
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 11. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 16. ↵
- A. Petruso and Laura Avery, Newsmakers 2007 Cumulation (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2008), 151. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 35. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom, Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 39. ↵
- Todd Howard, Recovering from Heroin Addiction (San Diego, CA: Lucent Books, 2011), 81. ↵
- Todd Howard, Recovering from Heroin Addiction (San Diego, CA: Lucent Books 2011), 81. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 57. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr, (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 60. ↵
- A. Petruso and Laura Avery, Newsmakers 2007 Cumulation (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2008),15. ↵
- St. James Encyclopedia of Popular Culture, 2013, s. v. “Downey, Robert Jr (1965-)” by Janet Mullane and Thomas Riggs, 157. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 60. ↵
- Ankita Mehta, “Robert Downey Jr. Asks Hollywood ‘Forgive My Friend’ Mel Gibson,” International Business Times, Winter 2011. https://www.ibtimes.com/robert-downey-jr-asks-hollywood-forgive-my-friend-mel-gibson-323691. ↵
- Laurie Collier Hillstrom Robert Downey Jr (Detroit, MI: Gale, 2011), 65. ↵
- Isobel Asher Hamilton, “YouTube’s new documentary demystifying artificial intelligence features Robert Downey Jr. and an AI baby,” Business Insider, December 20, 2019. https://www.businessinsider.com/youtube-ai-documentary-series-hosted-by-robert-downey-jr-2019-12. ↵
78 comments
Eliane Castorena
It is truly incredible to think how Robert Downey Jr. was able to turn, not only his career, but also his whole life around. Many young people that grew up only watching Downey Jr. play the Iron Man character do not realize how troubled his early career was. As mentioned in the article, his friend and famous actor, Mel Gibson, was the one that helped him get his life together and become the great actor and person he is today. Great read!
Estefanie Santiago Roman
Great descriptive article about Downey Jr. and how he was able to get back on his feet and change the life that he had. I only know him because of his films with Marvel, but it was quite interesting to read about how he grew surrounded by the “normality” of drugs. Many other celebrities also struggle with the addiction of drugs, but it was good to read that rehab was actually able to help him and he was able to find a new point of view of life which helped him.
Anthony Coronado
While I have to experience the acting of Robert Downey Jr.’s career in films. I did know there was a dark side to his road to the final stardom as an actor. As any recovered addict, recollects about the times they were under the influence of (drugs and or alcohol), they often suggest how during that time the influences of drugs and alcohol hurt the people around them as well as their careers. It is a true blessing the people who were passionate about careers and have an influence on the recovery of the individual.
Genesis Moro Otero
Growing up with Robert Downey Jr., I never knew about his situation at all. Being exposed to things like drugs at such a young age, you are able to understand why he went through all those hardships of use. It’s also great to read about him overcoming all of those things and not letting his past dictate his future. Now, he has become a legendary actor and knowing all of this makes me have even more respect for him, as an artist and as a person.
Carlos Apodaca
Its crazy to see someone turn their life around the way that Robert Downey Jr did, I have read on social media about his life before he was known as ironman but I never read about it until now. This articel did a great job in explaining his experiences with drug abuse especially at such a young age. Its incredible how a parent would want to introduce drugs to their child at such a young age but its great that he was able to overcome that and become one of the greatest actors.
Aracely Beltran
The great avenger Iron Man, although his life story is interesting and sad in terms of his downhill actions, his growth and maturity are amazing. It is hard to think about when you see these actors with all their success because we assume their life is perfect. However, most celebrities do turn to drugs and other methods due to the stress and pressure. It is very sad.
Ana Cravioto Herrero
What a great article! I absolutely love Robert Downey Jr. and was aware of his past but not in detail. I am so glad that he was able to conquer his addictions and it is amazing that Mel Gibson was there for Robert and never lost hope in him. Addiction is very hard to deal with and at the end of the day, no matter how many people try to help, it is up to the person with the problem to decide that they want to change for themselves.
Mia Hernandez
Robert Downey Jr. is very well-known for his roles as an actor, but he also had his downfalls while getting there. For someone to be exposed to marijuana and drugs at such a young age is hard to think about and understand why someone would want to subject their child to that kind of lifestyle. It is sad to think about the addictions he suffered throughout his life and how it affected his overall demeanor and actions as a person. Although it was a long and tiring process through rehab to beat his addictions, it is good to know that he eventually got the help he needed.
Giselle Garcia
It’s really surprising that Downey had a drug addiction when he was younger. He has gone through so much, from his arrest from being under the influence, then rehab, and to finally receiving roles again in his acting career. It’s interesting to read that Mel Gibson helped him recover and land a role in a film. Downey is a great example of someone who was once at their lowest point grew up to be one of the most successful people in their respective career.
Arsema Abera
Wow, I wasn’t aware that Robert Downey Jr. had a drug addiction, with his humor and everything I thought Downy was just an actor on the rise and had played Sherlock holmes. What had really surprised me, was his parents gave him drugs when he was just only 8 years old and later they just say that he has to go to rehab. It was this upbringing in the first place that affected Robert. But luckily his friend Mel came to the save and had helped him recover and if it weren’t for Downey’s determination and dedication to beat drug addiction who knows who the Iron man role would have gone too.