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September 12, 2017

Cleopatra and Antony: ‘Till Death Do Us Part

Winner of the Fall 2017 StMU History Media Award for

Best Article in the Category of “Political History”

Everyone can recall the famous words “‘Till Death Do Us Part.” For most, such vows are given at the beginning of a marriage that anticipates a long and happy life together. However, in the case Cleopatra and Mark Antony, it was a completely different story. Their marriage was brief and they had far less time together than they most likely wanted to have.

From the very beginning, Cleopatra was smart, cunning, witty, and independent, and most of all she was a natural leader. She knew how to get things done, and as the Queen of Egypt, this was a crucial skill to have. She also knew what to do in order to gain what she wanted. Of course, when it came to Antony, it was no different. Antony was a Roman politician and general, and Cleopatra knew that she wanted him and she knew just how to get him.

The Meeting of Antony and Cleopatra : Painting by Sir Lawrence Alma Tadema | 1883 | Courtesy of Wikimedia Commons

Cleopatra and Antony met in 42 B.C.E., shortly after the death of Julius Caesar, who was also a former lover of Cleopatra. Not too long after Caesar’s death, many Romans started to suspect that Cleopatra had played a role in Caesar’s death, and among them was Antony. Being overly suspicious of her, Antony demanded to have a meeting with Cleopatra, and although she agreed to meet with him, she was making plans of her own on the side. When Cleopatra arrived in Tarsus, she came on a perfumed ship decorated with purple sails, she dressed as Venus, the goddess of love, and she welcomed Antony as Bacchus, the Roman god of wine. Cleopatra “played him like an instrument,” so much that she was able to persuade him to come to her quarters for a feast.1 Cleopatra did things how she wanted to, and a prime example was her meeting with Antony. Soon after this encounter, Antony became completely taken by her; he was “amazed at Cleopatra’s wit as well as her good looks, and became her captive” as though he was a young boy in love.2 Not too long after, they became lovers. By that time, however, Antony had become the joint ruler of the Roman Empire, and his co-ruler, Octavian, was out to get him.3

Cleopatra and Antony, now lovers, were very open about their relationship. The two did not try to cover up or deny their relationship. Cleopatra invited Antony to banquets, whether it was political or not, and they both liked to play around with each other, even making bets about silly things. In one case, Cleopatra told Antony that she could spend 10,000,000 sesterces on a single banquet, which was an enormous sum. Curious, Antony wanted to see how she could possibly do it. He was skeptical about it, so he decided to bet that she could not do it. The next day, Cleopatra set before him a fine banquet. As the last course was being served, the servants put before her a single vessel with vinegar, making Antony even more curious as to what on earth she would do. She took a pearl earring and dropped it into the vinegar, and when it was completely melted, she swallowed it. Plancus, who was umpiring the bet, declared that Antony had lost the bet.4 Cleopatra loved to show off and prove just how smart and cunning she could really be. After losing the bet, Antony could not help but be even more captivated by Cleopatra, especially because of her brains. With every little thing that she did, when she showed him her smarts and cunning abilities, he grew more and more in infatuated with her.

Antony and Cleopatra (1891) | Courtesy of Wikimedia Commons

By 40 B.C.E., while their relationship progressed, Octavian was making plans to destroy Antony. In order to give him another reason for hating Antony, Octavian was making an arrangement that he knew Antony would mess up. Octavian arranged for his sister, Octavia, to marry Antony. This supposedly would create a better bond between the two rulers, but Octavian knew that Antony would end up leaving Octavia for Cleopatra. In fact, he counted on it.5 And Antony did marry Octavia, but it was only for the sake of saving his relationship with Octavian. He really wanted to make it work so as not to have a war in the future. However, his efforts did not pay off, and when Octavia bore a girl from Antony, Cleopatra bore twins from him as well. In 32 B.C.E., Antony ended up leaving Octavia after all, choosing to be with Cleopatra. Octavian knew that Antony would eventually leave his sister, and everything seemed to be working according to his plan.

When Antony left Octavia, he went to Cleopatra, and they continued their romance in public, both of them free from any other romantic entanglements.6  They lived together, and they even had children together. They eventually even went on to become married, although some scholars dispute this, such as Sheila Ager. But there is no doubt that they lived as though they were married. In the words of the classical scholar Ager, Antony treated Cleopatra, “with whom he had long been madly in love…as his wife.”7 In any relationship, it is natural to bear children, and in the case of Antony and Cleopatra, it was no different. The couple had three children in total together, their names being Cleopatra Selene II, Alexander Helios, and Ptolemy Philadelphus. Antony even ended up giving the throne of Armenia to his son Alexander Helios.8

Rare coin of Antony and Cleopatra that was offered for sale in 2010 dating from 32 B.C. | Courtesy of Wikimedia Commons

Their happiness did not last long, however, due to Octavian’s wrath and power. Octavian realized the extent of influence that Cleopatra held over Antony, and he used that fully to his advantage.9 He was still trying to steal the power that Antony had, and he began to put a new plan in motion that would lead to a war and ultimately, to the demise of the two lovers. Octavian produced a document that many scholars now believe to have been a forgery. Octavian claimed that the document was Antony’s will. It stated that, in the event of Antony’s death, he would leave his part of Rome’s possessions in Cleopatra’s hands. Of course, when the Roman Senate heard this, they became outraged and declared war against both Antony and Cleopatra.10

In an attempt to win the war against Octavian, Antony took his forces to meet Octavian’s. The Battle of Actium then took place in 31 B.C.E. Antony was supported fully by Cleopatra. However, they lost the battle and the two lovers were forced to flee to Alexandria, Egypt.11 Eventually, despite all of their efforts, Octavian’s troops caught up with them in Alexandria. But Antony decided that he did not want to surrender, be captured, or be killed by Octavian’s troops, and that he would rather die his own way on his own terms. He ended up stabbing himself with his sword, committing suicide.

The Death of Cleopatra | Painting by Juan Luna | 1881 | Courtesy of Wikimedia Commons

However, Cleopatra was captured by Octavian, who was planning to take her back to Rome as his prisoner. Cleopatra, being the strong-willed woman that she was, had other plans than to become a slave to Octavian, so she made arrangements for her own suicide. She had an asp, a snake with poisonous venom, “carried in to her with the figs and lay hidden under the leaves in the basket.”12 Once she had the asp, she clutched the hissing snake, mouth wide open, fangs visible, and then she pressed it to her breast, her throat muscles contracted in a vicious spasm, and eventually she died from the bite.13

Their romance may not have been long, only lasting from 42 to 31 B.C.E., It may not have been the type that everyone dreams of, and all of the events that occurred during their time together, especially at the Battle of Actium, may have led to their deaths. But it was a strong romance nonetheless.14 Cleopatra and Antony are remembered as a couple, “perhaps the most famous lovers from history.”15 The two lover’s tales are still told to this day and will continue to be told for generations to come.

  1. Ancient Civilizations Reference Library, 2000, s.v. “Cleopatra,” by Judson Knight and Stacy A. McConnell.
  2. Appian, The Civil Wars (Penguin Classics, 1996), 391.
  3. Ancient Civilizations Reference Library, 2000, s.v. “Cleopatra,” by Judson Knight and Stacy A. McConnell.
  4. Pliny the Younger, Pliny the Younger to Laberius, c. AD 95, in Cleopatra.
  5. Ancient Civilizations Reference Library, 2000, s.v. “Cleopatra,” by Judson Knight and Stacy A. McConnell.
  6. Sheila L. Ager, “Marriage or Mirage? The Phantom Wedding of Cleopatra and Antony,” Classical Philology 108, no. 2 (April 2013): 141. Ager writes: “No one disputes the existence of the private relationship between Antony and Cleopatra.”
  7. Sheila L. Ager, “Marriage or Mirage? The Phantom Wedding of Cleopatra and Antony,” Classical Philology 108, no. 2 (April 2013): 144.
  8. Sheila L. Ager, “Marriage or Mirage? The Phantom Wedding of Cleopatra and Antony,” Classical Philology 108, no. 2 (April 2013): 144.
  9. Encyclopedia Judaica, 2007, s.v. “Cleopatra,” by Michael Berenbaum and Fred Skolnik.
  10. Ancient Civilizations Reference Library, 2000, s.v. “Cleopatra,” by Judson Knight and Stacy A. McConnell.
  11. John Simkin, “Cleopatra,” Spartacus Educational, last modified August 2014.
  12. Plutarch, Plutarch’s Lives: Life of Mark Antony (CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 1920).
  13. Pat Brown, The murder of Cleopatra: history’s greatest cold case (Amherst, New York: Prometheus Books, 2013), 32.
  14. Thomas Burgon, “Observations on a coin of Cleopatra and M. Antony,” The Numismatic Chronicle 1, no. 1 (April 1839): 200.
  15. Adrian Goldsworthy, Antony and Cleopatra (Yale University Press, 2010), 1.

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Tyler Sleeter

Very informative article. I had heard of the strong love of Antony and Cleopatra, but I did not know all the details until now. I found it interesting that Antony tried to make a marriage between himself and Octavia work for the good of the country even though he was in love with Cleopatra. It reminds us that through most of history, marriage was a business deal and not for love. It seems to me that Antony and Cleopatra knew the risk they were taking when they decided to do what they wanted instead of what was best for their countries. It is not surprising that both ended up dead for their passion.

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15/09/2017

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Alexis Soto

One of my favorite HBO shows was Rome, a drama series based on the events that led to Julius Caesars murder and eventually Octavian becoming Emperor. This introduced be to historical figures such as Antony and Cleopatra. Reading this article gave me more historical information on the relationship between the two lovers, allowing for a better understanding of the lover’s situation and eventual death.

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Sam Vandenbrink

Very well written article, sweet and well worded explaining the story. “Antony did marry Octavia, but it was only for the sake of saving his relationship with Octavian.” It goes from a sweet story to something more Action Adventure. She became a slave to Octavia making it become pretty dramatic. Antony and Cleopatra had a very sweet love story torn apart. Sad that they couldn’t spend the rest of there lives together.

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15/09/2017

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Alejandra Mendez

This article is very interesting and immediately caught my eye. I have previous knowledge of Cleopatra’s and Antony’s relationship, but I never looked further into it nor bothered to learn more of it. I see this story as a story of actual love. It is a shame how their fate ended them but while they lived is what mattered to them both. They enjoyed their time together and their love is all that mattered. It is a truly inspiring love story unlike any other. The article hooks the readers right away and makes you want to keep reading to learn more about their love.

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15/09/2017

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Lisa Varela

The story of Antony and Cleopatra is one that everyone hears about at one point or another in their lifetime, myself included. I knew a few facts about Cleopatra and Antony as individuals and as a couple, but not the whole story. This news article provided a good narrative one their love story. I was particularly surprised with their tragic end.

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15/09/2017

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Grace Bell

I love this story! The whole concept of Cleopatra and Mark Antony’s relationship is very interesting. The details in this article are great, I learned so much about their relationship and I feel very well informed on the subject. You did a great job at giving a great description of the story and keeping it interesting throughout the whole article. Well done!

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15/09/2017

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Troy Leonard

before reading this article I had n idea or and knowledge about Cleopatra and Anthony’s romance. its fascinating what people will do or go through for a person that they love. thee love was really deep and it makes you think do you feel that way about multiple people or will you just find one special person in your life. you did a great job on giving us insight on their relationship.

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15/09/2017

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Teresa Valdez

The story of Antony and Cleopatra is very intriguing. This article characterizes Cleopatra, Antony, and Octavian very well. In their own ways, they were all scheming for power. I feel bad that Octavian’s sister was caught up in their vying for power. It is so easy to question if Cleopatra and Antony were really in love, or if they simply complemented each other as rulers. In the article, while the introduction was interesting, it could be stronger in order to captivate the audience. Good article!

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18/09/2017

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Zeresh Haman

I knew the basic facts about how they met and of course how they dies, but I was unaware that they had children together. I think its really interesting how for both of them it started out as them trying to get something out of each other, but that in the end they actually really loved each other. I also did not know that Antony had married Octavian’s sister. Very intriguing article.

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18/09/2017

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Alondra Aviles

Much better “love story” than Rome and Juliette or Jack and Rose. Nonetheless the story was very intriguing and the article accurately depicted lots of the events in a lovely story format. Cleopatra was known to be a very beautiful and lust filled female, she was capable of getting anything she wanted; as expressed in the article. Very iconic if you ask me, Antony was very powerful as well yet it was easy to decipher how she made him weak due to her stunning beauty and intelligence. Much like any tragic love story the ending was not very happy however it was very intriguing and will continue to be told for many years in mythology.

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