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Frida Kahlo’s Artistic Growth: From Divorce to Fame

Me pinto a mi misma porque soy a quien major conozco” (“I paint myself because I’m the one that knows me best”)—Frida Kahlo


Frida Kahlo is one of Mexico’s most influential female painters. Her elaborate and detailed self-portraits exhibit painful imagery and naturalistic symbolism.1 She expressed originality by using surrealism rather than the reflections of dreams or fantasies. Each and every one of her paintings was a real representation of her own life, emotions, and personal experiences. Frida Kahlo was born in Coyoacán, Mexico in 1907. She was the daughter of a German-Jewish photographer and his Indian-Spanish mother. Despite her European background, Kahlo related to her Mexican heritage, embracing the style of indigenous women, which later became Kahlo’s iconic look.2

Traditionally, women are expected to find a husband, get married, and have children. A woman who marries her dream husband would expect to be content with her life. In the case of Frida Kahlo, she fell madly in love with muralist Diego Rivera, and she married him on August 21, 1929.3 Diego was Frida’s dream come true. She first met Rivera in 1922 at the age of fifteen when she enrolled at the National Preparatory School in Mexico City. However, Kahlo was up for a rude awakening. Her dream marriage turned out to be a life full of pain and disappointment after she discovered Rivera’s infidelity.

“Frieda y Diego Rivera” | Frida Kahlo | 1931 | Courtesy of

In the early stages of her marriage to Diego, Kahlo was swept with an abundance of feelings of happiness and love. We might call this the honeymoon stage of Khalo’s marriage and artistic career. Her paintings during this period of her life displayed just such a happy mood. She was proud to be Diego’s wife, and Kahlo was content and ready to show the world their wonderful love. In an early 1931 painting of hers, Frieda y Diego Rivera, her canvas features Diego Rivera and Kahlo holding hands. By holding hands, the artist is expressing her feelings of possession of Diego. It is well-known that Rivera was unfaithful to Frida throughout their marriage, and Kahlo was aware of his many affairs. By painting this picture, she makes a bold statement that demonstrates Diego as her husband.4 The painting reveals Diego as the extraordinary master, as he is holding a wooden palette and paint brushes. The painting is a reflection of the couple’s marriage at the time, expressing the theme of an adoring wife who loves her husband despite his flaws. This is ironic because, due to Rivera’s flaws and their future, troubling divorce, Frida’s career grew more and more independent from Rivera’s artistic shadow.

On September 17, 1925, at the age of seventeen, while she was attending the National Preparatory School, Kahlo’ was involved in a terrible bus accident where she was impaled by an iron handrail. As a consequence, Kahlo experienced a broken spine, pelvis, collarbone, and rib injuries. These injuries presented her with difficulties during a number of her pregnancies, the first of them occurring in 1932 while in Detroit. This miscarriage influenced her relationship with Diego. She had the normal motherly desire to have a child, but it became a major dispute between her and Diego.3 The sequel of hurtful events permanently damaged her fantasy marriage. The artist reached the reality stage of the marriage as she began to acknowledge Diego’s infidelity and betrayal.

Despite the disappointment of the miscarriage and her awareness of Diego’s various infidelities, the worst was yet to come for Kahlo. Her most painful marriage experience was in discovering Rivera’s affair with her own sister Christina. Although this was one of the many affairs Rivera had, it was the most painful one for her.3 After Rivera’s betrayal, the relationship declined quickly and led to the couple’s separation on November 6, 1939.7 The sorrow and regret Kahlo experienced while married had been expressed in her artistic productions. The emotional roller-coaster of her marriage and her final break with Rivera and her divorce drove Kahlo to a crisis and the forming of two identities. The way she resolved her crisis was by painting two of her most famous portraits. Unlike her husband’s elaborate murals, Kahlo’s paintings reflect the shocking lifelong emotional and physical pain she has experienced.3

“Dos Frida’s”
(Two Frida’s)
|Courtesy of Commons Flickr

Frida was heartbroken after the divorce; the perfect life she had hoped for when she exchanged vows with Diego had become a lie. Frida Kahlo’s first thematic painting, of 1939,  relates to her now ex-husband Diego Rivera. The painting was known as Las Dos Fridas (The Two Fridas). Kahlo painted a canvas full of sorrow and painful imagery. The piece shows two identical Frida’s, in which Kahlo explored her two different identities. Each Frida has different clothes and accessories, indicative of their different personalities. One of the Fridas is labeled as the Mexican Frida, representing the Frida that Diego Rivera fell in love with, symbolized by the style of her traditional Mexican dress. The other Frida is representing the European Frida, as she is revealing her new, emerging identity. Here she depicts herself as a broken-hearted woman wearing traditional Victorian attire. The color of the white dress is an archetype for purity. This Frida is an independent artist. In the painting, both Fridas’ hearts are exposed, and there is a vein connecting them both. In the left traditional European Frida, Frida is holding surgical scissors that have cut the vein reflected in her lap. The vein leads to the Mexican Frida, where she is holding a small portrait of Rivera.9 The details of the painting echo Kahlo’s identity struggles after her divorce, illustrating the pain she was experiencing at the time.

“Autorretrato con Collar de Espinas”
| Courtesy of

The second painting of this period of her sorrow was a self-portrait, called Autorretrato con Collar de Espinas (Self-Portrait with Thorn Necklace). Today, this painting is still considered one of the most meaningful and widely recognized self-portraits of an artist, due to its emotion and symbolic context. Frida painted the portrait during the same time of grieving in her marriage. The disappointment Frida experienced from Rivera’s betrayal was captured in this gloomy painting. The canvas was completed in 1940, the year after her disturbing divorce from Diego Rivera came to an end. The portrait displays a series of meaningful elements; for example, the thorns sinking into her neck are a symbol of the pain she experienced when her relationship with Diego ended. The thorn necklace is a well-known symbol of the painful Crown of Thorns that Jesus was forced to wear on the day of his death. In the painting, Kahlo is wearing her signature Mexican dress, which formed a part of her unique style. Other symbols include a black dead hummingbird with outstretched wings, a black cat, and a monkey.10 Each animal has its own significance; for instance, the hummingbird symbolizes the end of the couple’s marriage, the black cat on Kahlo’s shoulders is a symbol of bad luck, and finally, the monkey represents a gift from Diego. It indicates how her husband’s treatment made her feel.

The thematic context presented in her paintings have captured the attention of numerous artists. As she was able to use symbolic connections rather than physical ones to expose her repetitive cycle of earthly sorrow, Kahlo also incorporated various traditional Mexican elements representing her Hispanic heritage.7 Her divorce was a significant period for career growth, as she was able to gain independence from her husband’s artistic shadow.7 Throughout her life she was able to express her happiness, sorrows, and tragedies to mourn the difficulties of her life. Her inspiration evolved out of rough and traumatic events, such as her husband’s infidelity, their divorce, her miscarriage, and even her earlier bus accident. The dissatisfaction and misery Kahlo experienced when her marriage failed left her with a sense of emptiness because her dream was to live a joyful life with Rivera. Frida’s work was inspired by traumatic physical and psychological events. The three paintings examined here show different stages of Kahlo’s artistic evolution that parallel her personal tragedies and experiences. Her unique painting style developed from her ability to interpret and convey her own reality. Kahlo’s innovative incorporation of her suffering and personal experiences earned her admiration of people from the 20th century.9 Kahlo envisioned a life full of happiness. She wanted loyalty, love, children, and a giving husband, and instead, she lived a life full of pain and treachery. Her dream marriage turned out to be a dreadful experience that greatly influenced her artwork.

  1. Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia, 2002, s.v. “Frida Kahlo (1907-1954),” by Diane Moody.
  2.  Encyclopedia of World Biography, 2006, s.v. “Frida Kahlo.”
  3. Salem Press Biographical Encyclopedia, January 2017, s.v. “Frida Kahlo,” by Tate Teresa Neva.
  4. Holly Barnet-Sanchez, “Frida Kahlo: Her Life and Art Revisited,” Latin American Research Review 32, no. 3 (1997): 247-248.
  5. Salem Press Biographical Encyclopedia, January 2017, s.v. “Frida Kahlo,” by Tate Teresa Neva.
  6. Salem Press Biographical Encyclopedia, January 2017, s.v. “Frida Kahlo,” by Tate Teresa Neva.
  7. Encyclopedia of World Biography, 2006, s.v. “Frida Kahlo.”
  8. Salem Press Biographical Encyclopedia, January 2017, s.v. “Frida Kahlo,” by Tate Teresa Neva.
  9. Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia., 2002, s.v. “Frida Kahlo (1907-1954),” by Diane Moody.
  10. Holly Barnet-Sanchez, “Frida Kahlo: Her Life and Art Revisited,” Latin American Research Review 32, no. 3 (1997): 248-250.
  11. Encyclopedia of World Biography, 2006, s.v. “Frida Kahlo.”
  12. Encyclopedia of World Biography, 2006, s.v. “Frida Kahlo.”
  13. Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia., 2002, s.v. “Frida Kahlo (1907-1954),” by Diane Moody.

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129 Responses

  1. Frida Kahlo is an icon in various aspects and her artwork exemplifies that. When I was in high school, my Spanish class briefly covered the life of Frida, but the article was extremely detailed and provided some great insight into information that I was not familiar with. For example, I never knew that Frida’s divorce from Diego inspired some of her most notable artwork. It looked like she lived a rough life and experienced many setbacks, but she used her talent to express herself. Not for the world to see, but to heal the wounds she suffered.

  2. I cannot believe that her husband had an affair with her very own sister! How could her sister do that to her? I never knew about Frida’s accident and what caused her to be unable to conceive a baby, until reading this article. Los Dos Fridas has always been one my favorite paintings so it was good to read the backstory about it.

    1. Look into it, that whole idea is a myth. She really just had a few abortions, she only said that because it was illegal in America at the time

  3. I’m so happy I found an article on Frida Kahlo, especially one that effectively captures the full story of the artist and is so attention-grabbing. I’ve admired her ever since I studied “Los Dos Fridas” in my art history class two years ago. My take-aways from that time were that she was a surrealist that had captured parts of her life like her bad marriage and her embrace for Mexican Heritage. This article made my jaw slack as I read her full story and the intricacy of the symbolism in her paintings. I had no idea about the bus accident nor the other tragedies she faced. I admire her even more now, knowing that despite every obstacle that would have rendered many to give up, Frida Kahlo bloomed as did her artistic talents.

  4. This was a very informing article. Before reading, I had only known a few things about Frida Khalo. I have never known her full story, nor have I known about the meanings behind her paintings. I find it really interesting how she was able to use her personal life and create an amazing piece of art. It’s inspiring how she was able to transform her weakness into something beautiful after her split from Diego.

  5. I always wondered if Frida didn’t know Diego would she turned out to be the same person she was before she died. Frida’s work is great influence. I love all her work and everything it symbolizes. One of my drawings for my AP Painting portfolio is based on Frida. The life she lived and everything she went through made me realize that everyone goes through really hard times in life but that doesn’t mean you have to give up. I really enjoyed this article because it was interesting and organized.

  6. It is so interesting on how she was part Jewish. I had known a little about both Frida Khalo and Diego Rivera, but not as to why they got divorced or how she got her fame. Those paintings are really strong and show the great emotions she had towards her marriage and the rest of her life with the colors and details that were involved.

  7. This was an interesting article to read about Frida Kahlo. I have done research on her before and I have heard many times that she was very well known for her self portraits, her color, and her messages. But reading the break down about these specific paintings was very interesting, I actually didn’t know that the animals had meanings, I just always thought that she appreciated nature. I feel like her split from Diego also gave her a new style of art which actually made her stand out more and become more famous. Its nice to see that she was able to turn her weakness into strength.

  8. Frida Kahlo is something else! Her ability to translate her pain, grievance, and becoming in symbols of her beautiful self-portraits is unreal. I noticed that the article mentions the bus incident, but it doesn’t say that while she was in the hospital still recovering from temporary paralysis is when she picked up painting herself. Still, everything this poor girl wanted ended in pain, and her talent to express it with others is our gift.

  9. This was a very interesting article. Like many people I’ve seen her art but have never heard the full story of Frida Khalo. It’s interesting how a lot of her artwork was entwined with her personal life and relationships. I never realized the symbolism inside of her artwork. It’s refreshing that someone in the 30’s was able to escape a bad/harmful marriage and then also able to express the newfound freedom through her art.

  10. Before reading this article I had only briefly heard about the famous Frida Khalo. I had never heard the entire story about Frida Khalo and her life story. Frida Khalo was a unique and well known artist that greatly impacted the world of art. She used her feelings to express herself on the canvas. Frida Khalo is a well known individual that will always be known for unique talent of art. This was a well written article that really engaged the audience.

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