Gary Pressley served the United States Navy | Courtesy of Stars and Strips and the Pressley Family

Baseball, hotdogs, apple pie, Cheverlet, and Gary Pressley epitomized the thoughts of an “All American kid.” This young man was born and raised in Georgia with his mother, Michelle Wilson. She highlights his cheerful character as, “Life of the party” and “positivity.” However, the light of Gary Pressley, a United States soldier, turns bleak after many unfavorable circumstances. Unfortunately, Pressley’s tale laid the foundation of heartache, mistrust, negligence, and death. But Pressley’s story is merely a reflection of many stories similar to his own. The narrative of his injury became entangled with the red tape of the US Veterans Administration, and this ultimately led to the downward spiral of his life.1

Pressley began serving his country at the age of seventeen in Georgia, during his high school years. He served as Navy aviation ordinance-man from 2008 to 2012. He was responsible for the movement and handling of weapons and ammunition on Naval aircrafts. Pressley was deployed to Haiti in 2010 as a disaster relief officer for the tragic aftermath of Haiti’s catastrophic earthquake. On one of his final military evaluations, in 2012, Pressley was portrayed by military evaluators as “dedicated and hardworking,” “meticulous,” “focused and productive” and “a total team player who produces quality results with little to no supervision.” He was also said to have “unlimited potential” and was nominated for promotion. This military environment created a perfect atmosphere for Gary Pressley to thrive and his military evaluations showcased his success.2

Sadly, in 2012, Pressley suffered a dreadful car wreck. This accident unfortunately occurred in the middle of his military career thus ending it. This wreck left him with severe hip and back pain. Pressley altered his life plan in the midst of forced change. He returned to his home state of Georgia after his accident, and he started business classes at a local college, and worked at an auto parts shop. He also had a loving girlfriend. Gary bought his first home in 2018, and was planning on opening an auto parts business with his stepfather. Most of all, Pressley dreamed of having a family one day. In the midst of such tragic circumstances regarding his accident, Pressley’s positivity shown through. His mother says, “He fought hard to have the life he wanted, even after the accident. He was strong.” Pressley’s success in the military was mirrored by his success in civilian life. Despite the tragedy of his accident, his desire to succeed remained steadfast.3

Navy Aviation Warfare Insignia | Courtesy of Wikimedia Commons

Gary Pressley was treated at Carl Vinson VA Medical Center from 2013 to 2018 for his chronic pain after his accident. Then his VA doctor referred him to a private doctor in the area as part of the Veteran’s Choice Program, which was a program established by Congress after the Wait Time scandal of 2014. This program was set up to eliminate wait times for appointments provided by the VA, allowing veterans to see local doctors, and limit their travel to VA medical centers. But the Veteran’s Choice Program was really so much less for veterans.4

The Veteran Choice Program sparked controversy and tension closely following its launch in 2018. The VA could not maintain payments regarding the private doctors subbed out by the Veterans Choice Program. According to the VA’s assistant undersecretary for health for community care, Kameron Matthews, the VA was back logged 3.4 million dollars to third party doctors. Congress tried to fix these persisting issues by creating the Mission Act. However, the identical problems of sub-par financial management of the VA followed the new program. Under the new act, the needed reimbursements to private doctors was worse, standing at 5 million dollars. Unfortunately, Gary Pressley was one of many retried soldiers affected by the financial negligence of the VA. His life is a staunch reminder that there are real-lives at stake behind the web of bureaucratic red tape.5

Gary Pressley was treated by a private sector doctor starting in the middle of 2018. Pressley and this doctor were on good terms and she prescribed him the appropriate medication for his condition of pain. Dreadfully, in February of 2019, this private sector doctor stopped seeing veterans due to the fact that the Veterans Agency never payed her thousands of dollars for working with their patients. Evidently, some thought that the bottom line was precedent, but it was Gary Pressley’s life that hung in the balance.6

In March 2019, Pressley was out of medication for his chronic pain. He contacted the VA on numerous occasions and informed them of his situation. The VA said in order for his prescription to be refilled, he must be seen by a VA doctor. He asked for an appointment, yet it was never scheduled. Pressley pleaded for someone to listen to him, that he needed help; however, no one obliged Gary, due to the subpar care of the VA. His cries for help that went unanswered ultimately led to tragic circumstance.7

By April 5, Pressley was in dire need of help. He made five phone calls to the VA and made one trip to the VA medical center, where he talked to four people. They all answered with a “no,” because Pressley had not been seen by a doctor from the VA. Let’s remember. The VA never scheduled the appointment Pressley tried to obtain. Pressley should have never been forced to face such a life and death dilemma. His circumstances were dictated by the negligence of others. Exiting the VA Medical Center, Pressley lost hope.8

At 5 p.m. that day Pressley, at the age of twenty-eight, was found dead in his vehicle by VA police in the Dublin VA medical center parking lot. They found Pressley with his sunglasses on, his left shoulder against the door soaked in blood, his right arm over the center console, and shot in the heart. Pressley’s hope for help had died. There was a suicide note on the dashboard written by Pressley saying, “This is what happens by punishing already suffering people.”9

Pressley had called a number of family members, and his girlfriend, telling them what he was going to do. Come to find out, Pressley’s sister, Lisa Johnson, alerted the VA police of Pressley’s concerning intensions. She helped them by using her GPS on her cellular device to locate her brother. Unfortunately they were too late. Johnson claimed that the VA was under-qualified for handling the intense situation. Even desperate pleas from his family to the VA could not save Pressley’s dying dreams.10

Soon following his death, Michelle Wilson, Pressley’s mother, filed a wrongful death report with her attorney Peter Bertling against the VA for $8.25 million. Also, after Pressley’s death, his mother was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. Ten months later she had to quit her job of fifteen years because she was overtaken with despair. Wilson is now jobless and in therapy due to the fact that she is consumed by grief for the loss of her son.11

Pressley was one of three veterans to commit suicide on VA property on April 5 of 2019. Those one of three deaths were a few out of many veteran suicides. According to Jennifer Steinhaur of the New York Times, “there are about 20 suicide deaths every day among veterans, about one and a half times more often than those who have not served in the military, according to the most recent statistics available from the department.”12 The numbers given are devastating. Unfortunately, Gary Pressley was one of those twenty on April 5, 2019. These soldiers have fought wars overseas; now it up to the VA to protect these “suffering people,” as Gary Pressley put it, from the war of suicide at home. This story makes one think, is it Gary Pressley’s fault for his death or the negligence of the VA?13

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  1. Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020. Stars and Stripes (website).
  2. Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes (website).
  3. Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes (website).
  4. “10 Things About The Veterans Choice Program,” April 6, 2018, Veterans Administration.
  5. “10 Things About The Veterans Choice Program,” April 6, 2018. Veterans Administration.
  6. Wanya Reese, “‘I just wish they would have found him and stopped him:’ Central Georgia family mourns after veteran commits suicide,” April 9, 2019. WMAZ-TV, CBS.
  7. Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says.” February 21, 2020. Stars and Stripes.
  8. Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” Februrary 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes.
  9. Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes.
  10. Wanya Reese, “‘I just wish they would have found him and stopped him:’ Central Georgia family mourns after veteran commits suicide,” April 9, 2019, WMAZ-TV, CBS.
  11. Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes.
  12. Jennifer Steinhaur, “VA Officials, and the Nation, Battle an Unrelenting Tide of Veteran Suicide,” April 14, 2019, The New York Times.
  13. Jeremy Redmon, “Veteran who killed himself outside of Dublin VA hospital identified,” April 10, 2019, The Atlantic Journal-Constitution.

39 Responses

  1. It’s so upsetting to find out how unhelpful the VA programs were. Gary Pressley seemed to be such a bright person who was constantly pushing and to find out that the failure of proper management of the programs is what lead to him ending his life is even more upsetting. The VA programs are meant to assist the veterans who dedicated themselves to serving their country, but instead, they fail to help the ones who served which end up leading to homeless veterans or ill ones because of their negligence. For a country that supposed to be a first-world country, they fail to do the bare minimum for their loyal citizens such as their veterans, which begs the question if we even are a first-world country anymore since it seems we don’t even have the resources to support the ones who put their lives on the line for their country. The article was so well written that it made me think deeper on the situation that you presented.

  2. This article was so well written! It was easy to read and it flowed very well. This story is very heartbreaking. It’s really sad to see how the U.S. military expects a lot from the people serving but fails to provide the necessary aid to compensate for those returning to the U.S. Veterans do not get the care they deserve and it is really unjust after all they do for their country.

  3. Hi,

    I think this article was very well organized and detailed. Its truly sad to hear about some of our heroes not getting the care they need after their service. This has been a topic of late and Im glad you are shining some light on it to make people aware of what’s going on and to bring awareness towards the issue.

  4. Hi Madeline! Thank you for shedding light on this tragic story and unfortunately, this is a reality for many families who have loved ones who serve in the military. My father is about to retire from the U.S. Army after 20+ years and it makes me worry as these are very real situations that can happen to anyone. Thank you for bringing awareness to a large issue for many people with loved ones who have and are serving.

  5. Hi, Madeline. As a daughter of an Army veteran who served almost ten years in combat, I am very grateful that my father received the care and attention that he needed following his retirement from the military. However, I think that this article makes an important point in that too many veterans are left without help as a result of a faulty system. It is important that this country improves its ability to not only help, but also identify veterans that are struggling following their career in the military. While I understand that America is by no means a nation in transition, this is a key example of how our government can be compared to a nation that is struggling to protect their citizens due to a lack of government responsiveness.

  6. What happened to Gary Pressley is a tragedy. From my personal experience with the VA, when I went with my dad to one of their offices, I left with a bad impression of them. I don’t know if it was because there was a long wait time (I think we arrived in the morning but stayed long enough that lunch passed), that the lighting or the room felt dingy, that the room was small and crowded (which no doubt contributed to the long wait), or if the past complaints I’ve heard about the VA from my dad influenced me. Now that I’ve read this article, I feel like I can definitively say that the VA is shady.

  7. This story of Gary Pressley is truly heartbreaking. The story itself is very eye opening and highlights the reality for Veterans seeking assistance from the Veteran Affairs since this article brings attention to a major issue within the military and its veterans. My father was previously in the military therefore this subject is very important to me and glad articles like this one are shedding light to this issue.

  8. The article demonstrates how many veterans and heroes in our country have not gotten the respect and attention they truly deserve. It is important that we enhance and strengthen the Veterans Act because it has definitely has not accomplished what everyone who has fought for our country deserve. We need to create new legislation that addresses the treatment and resources veterans should receive. Furthermore, nations in transition have many similar problems of not taking care of their veterans because of lack of economic power and resources.

  9. This article is very well-researched and well-organized. However the tone is, at times, not academic, as no matter how tragic or upsetting the material, the feelings of the researchers on the matter are not really relevant. That being said, this is an absolutely heartbreaking story and you did well telling it, as well as putting it in the context of a much larger issue.

  10. Hi Madeline, this was a great article! Many of the men and women in my family have served in the U.S. military and unfortunately can attest to the type of insufficient care received upon returning home to the states. In the U.S. culture, it is common to view the nations overseas as the places where the violence and bad things take place. Many of these nations are seen as developing, and transitioning with unstable economies and governments. Your article brings to light the fact that this narrative is not the entire story for those who serve. I loved the flow of your article and the overall tone. Great job!

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