Baseball, hotdogs, apple pie, Cheverlet, and Gary Pressley epitomized the thoughts of an “All American kid.” This young man was born and raised in Georgia with his mother, Michelle Wilson. She highlights his cheerful character as, “Life of the party” and “positivity.” However, the light of Gary Pressley, a United States soldier, turns bleak after many unfavorable circumstances. Unfortunately, Pressley’s tale laid the foundation of heartache, mistrust, negligence, and death. But Pressley’s story is merely a reflection of many stories similar to his own. The narrative of his injury became entangled with the red tape of the US Veterans Administration, and this ultimately led to the downward spiral of his life.1
Pressley began serving his country at the age of seventeen in Georgia, during his high school years. He served as Navy aviation ordinance-man from 2008 to 2012. He was responsible for the movement and handling of weapons and ammunition on Naval aircrafts. Pressley was deployed to Haiti in 2010 as a disaster relief officer for the tragic aftermath of Haiti’s catastrophic earthquake. On one of his final military evaluations, in 2012, Pressley was portrayed by military evaluators as “dedicated and hardworking,” “meticulous,” “focused and productive” and “a total team player who produces quality results with little to no supervision.” He was also said to have “unlimited potential” and was nominated for promotion. This military environment created a perfect atmosphere for Gary Pressley to thrive and his military evaluations showcased his success.2
Sadly, in 2012, Pressley suffered a dreadful car wreck. This accident unfortunately occurred in the middle of his military career thus ending it. This wreck left him with severe hip and back pain. Pressley altered his life plan in the midst of forced change. He returned to his home state of Georgia after his accident, and he started business classes at a local college, and worked at an auto parts shop. He also had a loving girlfriend. Gary bought his first home in 2018, and was planning on opening an auto parts business with his stepfather. Most of all, Pressley dreamed of having a family one day. In the midst of such tragic circumstances regarding his accident, Pressley’s positivity shown through. His mother says, “He fought hard to have the life he wanted, even after the accident. He was strong.” Pressley’s success in the military was mirrored by his success in civilian life. Despite the tragedy of his accident, his desire to succeed remained steadfast.3
Gary Pressley was treated at Carl Vinson VA Medical Center from 2013 to 2018 for his chronic pain after his accident. Then his VA doctor referred him to a private doctor in the area as part of the Veteran’s Choice Program, which was a program established by Congress after the Wait Time scandal of 2014. This program was set up to eliminate wait times for appointments provided by the VA, allowing veterans to see local doctors, and limit their travel to VA medical centers. But the Veteran’s Choice Program was really so much less for veterans.4
The Veteran Choice Program sparked controversy and tension closely following its launch in 2018. The VA could not maintain payments regarding the private doctors subbed out by the Veterans Choice Program. According to the VA’s assistant undersecretary for health for community care, Kameron Matthews, the VA was back logged 3.4 million dollars to third party doctors. Congress tried to fix these persisting issues by creating the Mission Act. However, the identical problems of sub-par financial management of the VA followed the new program. Under the new act, the needed reimbursements to private doctors was worse, standing at 5 million dollars. Unfortunately, Gary Pressley was one of many retried soldiers affected by the financial negligence of the VA. His life is a staunch reminder that there are real-lives at stake behind the web of bureaucratic red tape.5
Gary Pressley was treated by a private sector doctor starting in the middle of 2018. Pressley and this doctor were on good terms and she prescribed him the appropriate medication for his condition of pain. Dreadfully, in February of 2019, this private sector doctor stopped seeing veterans due to the fact that the Veterans Agency never payed her thousands of dollars for working with their patients. Evidently, some thought that the bottom line was precedent, but it was Gary Pressley’s life that hung in the balance.6
In March 2019, Pressley was out of medication for his chronic pain. He contacted the VA on numerous occasions and informed them of his situation. The VA said in order for his prescription to be refilled, he must be seen by a VA doctor. He asked for an appointment, yet it was never scheduled. Pressley pleaded for someone to listen to him, that he needed help; however, no one obliged Gary, due to the subpar care of the VA. His cries for help that went unanswered ultimately led to tragic circumstance.7
By April 5, Pressley was in dire need of help. He made five phone calls to the VA and made one trip to the VA medical center, where he talked to four people. They all answered with a “no,” because Pressley had not been seen by a doctor from the VA. Let’s remember. The VA never scheduled the appointment Pressley tried to obtain. Pressley should have never been forced to face such a life and death dilemma. His circumstances were dictated by the negligence of others. Exiting the VA Medical Center, Pressley lost hope.8
At 5 p.m. that day Pressley, at the age of twenty-eight, was found dead in his vehicle by VA police in the Dublin VA medical center parking lot. They found Pressley with his sunglasses on, his left shoulder against the door soaked in blood, his right arm over the center console, and shot in the heart. Pressley’s hope for help had died. There was a suicide note on the dashboard written by Pressley saying, “This is what happens by punishing already suffering people.”9
Pressley had called a number of family members, and his girlfriend, telling them what he was going to do. Come to find out, Pressley’s sister, Lisa Johnson, alerted the VA police of Pressley’s concerning intensions. She helped them by using her GPS on her cellular device to locate her brother. Unfortunately they were too late. Johnson claimed that the VA was under-qualified for handling the intense situation. Even desperate pleas from his family to the VA could not save Pressley’s dying dreams.10
Soon following his death, Michelle Wilson, Pressley’s mother, filed a wrongful death report with her attorney Peter Bertling against the VA for $8.25 million. Also, after Pressley’s death, his mother was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. Ten months later she had to quit her job of fifteen years because she was overtaken with despair. Wilson is now jobless and in therapy due to the fact that she is consumed by grief for the loss of her son.11
Pressley was one of three veterans to commit suicide on VA property on April 5 of 2019. Those one of three deaths were a few out of many veteran suicides. According to Jennifer Steinhaur of the New York Times, “there are about 20 suicide deaths every day among veterans, about one and a half times more often than those who have not served in the military, according to the most recent statistics available from the department.”12 The numbers given are devastating. Unfortunately, Gary Pressley was one of those twenty on April 5, 2019. These soldiers have fought wars overseas; now it up to the VA to protect these “suffering people,” as Gary Pressley put it, from the war of suicide at home. This story makes one think, is it Gary Pressley’s fault for his death or the negligence of the VA?13
- Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020. Stars and Stripes (website). https://www.stripes.com/news/veterans/va-negligent-in-veteran-s-parking-lot-suicide-mother-says-1.619750 ↵
- Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes (website). https://www.stripes.com/news/veterans/va-negligent-in-veteran-s-parking-lot-suicide-mother-says-1.619750 ↵
- Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes (website). https://www.stripes.com/news/veterans/va-negligent-in-veteran-s-parking-lot-suicide-mother-says-1.619750 ↵
- “10 Things About The Veterans Choice Program,” April 6, 2018, Veterans Administration. https://www.va.gov/health/newsfeatures/2017/july/things-to-know-about-the-veteran-choice-program.asp ↵
- “10 Things About The Veterans Choice Program,” April 6, 2018. Veterans Administration. https://www.va.gov/health/newsfeatures/2017/july/things-to-know-about-the-veteran-choice-program.asp ↵
- Wanya Reese, “‘I just wish they would have found him and stopped him:’ Central Georgia family mourns after veteran commits suicide,” April 9, 2019. WMAZ-TV, CBS. https://www.13wmaz.com/article/news/local/dublin/i-just-wish-they-would-have-found-him-and-stopped-him-central-georgia-family-mourns-after-veteran-commits-suicide/93-c2af2be3-9ed6-4a5e-8e1c-31b978d819ad ↵
- Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says.” February 21, 2020. Stars and Stripes. https://www.stripes.com/news/veterans/va-negligent-in-veteran-s-parking-lot-suicide-mother-says-1.619750 ↵
- Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” Februrary 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes. https://www.stripes.com/news/veterans/va-negligent-in-veteran-s-parking-lot-suicide-mother-says-1.619750 ↵
- Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes. https://www.stripes.com/news/veterans/va-negligent-in-veteran-s-parking-lot-suicide-mother-says-1.619750 ↵
- Wanya Reese, “‘I just wish they would have found him and stopped him:’ Central Georgia family mourns after veteran commits suicide,” April 9, 2019, WMAZ-TV, CBS. https://www.13wmaz.com/article/news/local/dublin/i-just-wish-they-would-have-found-him-and-stopped-him-central-georgia-family-mourns-after-veteran-commits-suicide/93-c2af2be3-9ed6-4a5e-8e1c-31b978d819ad ↵
- Elise Wentling, “VA ‘negligent’ in veteran’s parking-lot suicide, mother says,” February 21, 2020, Stars and Stripes. https://www.stripes.com/news/veterans/va-negligent-in-veteran-s-parking-lot-suicide-mother-says-1.619750 ↵
- Jennifer Steinhaur, “VA Officials, and the Nation, Battle an Unrelenting Tide of Veteran Suicide,” April 14, 2019, The New York Times. ↵
- Jeremy Redmon, “Veteran who killed himself outside of Dublin VA hospital identified,” April 10, 2019, The Atlantic Journal-Constitution. https://www.ajc.com/news/breaking-news/veteran-who-killed-himself-outside-dublin-hospital-identified/Heg1LV3aSoAwUYaAAwwHJL/ ↵
40 comments
Marian Reyes
One of the best parts of reading this article is the way the author approaches Gary Pressley’s story. From his bright beginning to his tragic end, Chandler shows the way that the government left Pressley (and many others like him) down. In relation to Nations in Transition, there are two ways that this article can relate to the subject. The first is more obvious, as part of the military, Pressley visited and worked in many nations in transition. The second is more debatable, but it could be argued that the United States’ lack of efficient system to help veterans – as well as the mess that VA is – could be considered one of the four aspects of a nation in transition. Specifically, the structure/institutional factor of it.
Karla Cardenas
It’s so upsetting to find out how unhelpful the VA programs were. Gary Pressley seemed to be such a bright person who was constantly pushing and to find out that the failure of proper management of the programs is what lead to him ending his life is even more upsetting. The VA programs are meant to assist the veterans who dedicated themselves to serving their country, but instead, they fail to help the ones who served which end up leading to homeless veterans or ill ones because of their negligence. For a country that supposed to be a first-world country, they fail to do the bare minimum for their loyal citizens such as their veterans, which begs the question if we even are a first-world country anymore since it seems we don’t even have the resources to support the ones who put their lives on the line for their country. The article was so well written that it made me think deeper on the situation that you presented.
Camila Garcia
The article was very touching, the way you described his life in the first two paragraphs really humanized him and made him more than just another statistic. It is very well written and easy to read, it was also very informative. Pressley’s story was awful and what makes it worse is that it is not uncommon for veterans to commit suicide, this is not just something that happens in the United States, in India a thousand veterans committed suicide, his motive might be universal and might be the reason why others are doing the same thing.
Ian Mcewen
It is always said when those that fought for our country died because of our country. Veterans should be among some of our most cared for people because they were willing to potentially die in order to protect what our country stands for. the problem may be a disconnect between those who that suffer and those that have power, it might also be because of the US’s larger cost for medical work.
Rhys Kennedy
This article was very well written and touched upon a topic that needs more discussion in order to make solutions. It is not as if for many years people have not heard or known about issues when it comes to the VA and veterans’ mental health, but perhaps the consequences of these issues have been lost on people. The articles displayed an admirable amount of detail as to the individuality of Pressly’s story whilst noting that stories like his are not unique.
Victor Rodriguez
This article is so meaningful and valuable in so many ways! I believe that it is jus heartbreaking to see how all those who have served our country and been loyal do not receive the attention and resources they deserve. I believe that we need better legislation and put a greater emphasis on the importance of this issue. There are so many friends and family members I know that are veterans, and it just devastates me to see how they might not be getting the help they need. We should all advocate and fight for this cause because all these people are amazing and heroe!
Andrew Gallegos
Such an amazing article well written and really recommend to read.It’s heartbreaking how these men and women serve for our country but don’t get the help they need. If someone would have listened to this man nobody would of been harmed !!
Andres Garcia
This article highlights the unfortunate reality that a lot of veterans face after putting their life on the line for this country. The sub-par management of VA programs described in the article is a big indication of why a large portion of the homeless population is retired vets. It’s truly sad that a man’s potential was wasted due to the lack of medical attention he received. What surprised me the most is that he persisted through all the trials and tribulations that life brought him and the mismanagement of the VA programs is what ultimately caused him to take his life.
Allison Grijalva
Hi Madeline! Thank you for writing this article, it really touched my heart. I know many veterans who have served overseas and come home with many unresolved traumas and personal battles from their time in the service. It is so crucial that these battles are addressed in some way, and there is a real focus placed on internal struggles for those who serve. My papa is a Vietnam veteran and has had to deal with the VA, not always with the most pleasant stories to tell. Thank you for writing this article!
Donte Joseph
I believe that these veterans that these veterans were failed by many. To fight for you country and give your life, only to be turned on by society is something that should be changed. People like Gary Pressely should not have to come to this saddening end because they were failed. This article is important not only to remember the lives of those who suffer or passed, but to spread awareness in hopes of a better future.